Acknowledgements
When deciding to write this account, I felt that there were
years of memories and misunderstandings I needed to address. This account is my
way of exorcising demons that have haunted me for years. I also felt that not
enough had been written or published from the point of view of a person on the
Autism Spectrum. I believed writing this account would be a good way to connect
with people and combat the stereotype that people with Autism are emotionless
robots who memorize obscure factoids all day.
I owe several people my gratitude. To start, all the staff and students at the
Vanguard School in Paoli, Pennsylvania, I am also indebted to many more friends
who helped me along the way: Adrianne Harmon, Jim Lewis, Sabina Sloan, Erin
Hewitt, Teresa Barone, Anna Trout, Christine Hayes, John Nurthen, Vic Sarro, Bill
Apter, Myles Rothwell, Lee & Suzanne Gronikowski, Sean Gould and Eli Rosen for being the best musical collaborators one can ask for, Helen & Joe
Rodolico along with Nicole Rodolico, Justine Rodolico and Steven Rodolico; Jane
Cope; Lisa and Tony Saltzman, Ian Saltzman, Nick Saltzman and Madison Saltzman.
And the many other people who have helped me in ways large and small.
And of course my wonderful family: my caring uncles and
aunts: Roger & Nancy Jones, Joe and Doreena Callaghan, John and Donna
Callaghan, Mary Gilbride, Kathleen and George Nasca , Pamela Herzig, Garrett
Jones, and Joseph Steficek. Plus many cousins, Adam, Amanda, Andy Nasca,
Andrew Jones, Anne, Becky, Ellen, Jason, Katie, Kristen, Matthew, Mark, Meghan
Gilbride, Megan Korneke, Michelle, Nolan, Ryan, Stephanie and Tom, along with
their spouses, Amy, Amy, Chris, Dan , Eric, Holly, Jason and Kristi, and their kids Eli, Elliot,
George, Katie,Jackson, Joseph, Lyall, Madison, Margot, Monica, Simon, Steven and John
Mostly I thank my parents Michael and Lorry Callaghan, and
my brother Kevin. And I dedicate this to
the memory of the best grandparents in the world: Joseph and Frances Callaghan
and Roger and Dolores Jones. I also dedicate this to my Aunt Peg Steficek (a
truly great aunt) as well as to my Uncles Donald Herzig, and Ronald Gilbride, as
well as my friend Lee Saltzman and my beloved dog Berkeley, it is because of the
way you all lived your lives that I keep moving on.
and Last but certainly not least to Julia for teaching me to accept myself as I am.
and Last but certainly not least to Julia for teaching me to accept myself as I am.
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